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~te Hoshii: Want Someone To

Learn te hoshii for expressing what you want someone else to do. This lesson combines form, context, examples, common mistakes, and practice so you can use the pattern in real communication.

12 minNihongo Hub Editorial TeamPublished 2026-06-06Updated 2026-06-06

Learning objectives

  • Lesson goals: Learn te hoshii for expressing what you want someone else to do.
  • Form and connection: [Verb te-form] ほしい
  • Nuance in real use: てほしい projects your wishes onto others — it's not "you do it" but "I hope you do it." This indirectness makes it useful in both intimate relationships and hierarchical situations.

Form and connection

[Verb te-form] ほしい

Core Explanation

Learn te hoshii for expressing what you want someone else to do.

Cultural Note

てほしい projects your wishes onto others — it's not "you do it" but "I hope you do it." This indirectness makes it useful in both intimate relationships and hierarchical situations.

Practical examples

I want you to come tomorrow.
I want you to not forget anymore.
I want him to tell the truth.
I want the children to be happy.

Common pitfalls

Build the base form before adding the pattern

Complete the required conjugation first. Do not keep polite and plain endings at the same time.

Match politeness to the situation

The examples are reliable starting points; relationships and context can still change the most natural wording.

Practice and answers

1. Write the connection formula for this lesson.
Show answer[Verb te-form] ほしい
2. Explain the meaning of the first example.
Show answerI want you to come tomorrow.
3. Rewrite the final example using this lesson pattern.
Show answer子こどもたちに幸しあわせになってほしい。 ([Verb te-form] ほしい)

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