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~temo Ii Desu ka: Asking Permission

Learn to ask permission politely with temo ii desu ka and how to respond. This lesson combines form, context, examples, common mistakes, and practice so you can use the pattern in real communication.

12 minNihongo Hub Editorial TeamPublished 2026-06-06Updated 2026-06-06

Learning objectives

  • Lesson goals: Learn to ask permission politely with temo ii desu ka and how to respond.
  • Form and connection: [Verb te-form] もいいですか
  • Nuance in real use: When Japanese people ask for permission, they need to balance politeness with leaving room for refusal. てもいいですか sits right in the middle — more polite than "can I?" but not pressuring the other person.

Form and connection

[Verb te-form] もいいですか

Core Explanation

Learn to ask permission politely with temo ii desu ka and how to respond.

Cultural Note

When Japanese people ask for permission, they need to balance politeness with leaving room for refusal. てもいいですか sits right in the middle — more polite than "can I?" but not pressuring the other person.

Practical examples

May I take a photo?
May I sit here?
Yes, go ahead.
Sorry, it's a bit... (inconvenient)

Common pitfalls

Build the base form before adding the pattern

Complete the required conjugation first. Do not keep polite and plain endings at the same time.

Match politeness to the situation

The examples are reliable starting points; relationships and context can still change the most natural wording.

Practice and answers

1. Write the connection formula for this lesson.
Show answer[Verb te-form] もいいですか
2. Explain the meaning of the first example.
Show answerMay I take a photo?
3. Rewrite the final example using this lesson pattern.
Show answerすみません、ちょっと… ([Verb te-form] もいいですか)

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